Tuesday, October 10, 2006

The first time is important

When you're 22 and starting to date a guy you really like, there are some things to consider. You have to decide what you will and won't do with him, and after how many dates. Right away might put him off, but waiting for years until you've really fallen in love, taking the plunge, and having a terrible experience that makes you realize you're incompatible? Well that's a pain I didn't want, so I waited only a few dates before getting out my knitting in front of Chris. (What? What else would I be talking about?)

I knew it might be a little weird, or might freak him out, but I really liked him, and I needed to know right away if he was ok with my old lady hobby. We were in his bedroom at his parent's home, getting ready to watch a movie he'd been telling me about and wanted me to see. As he got the video tape set up (this was almost ten years ago, after all) I quietly got out the socks I was knitting for my Mom for Christmas. They were the Ukrainian socks from Nancy Bush's Folk Socks. In fact, that's the pair pictured on the front of the book.

Chris took one look at me knitting and excused himself (politely) from the room. I had no idea what was going on. Did he leave to laugh at me? To figure out how to get rid of me? To get his own knitting? I had no idea, and that made me nervous, so I kept knitting.

He finally returned with his mother in tow. He pointed at me and said to his mother with glee, "Mom, look what she's doing!" She looked pleased, and he was obviously happy about it, and I was confused, so I kept knitting.

They explained to me that his mother's mother (Grandma Sorri) was always knitting or crocheting, and had made a lot of the stuff around their house. I was in. I could keep dating him, could now allow myself to fall in love without reservation, and could bring my knitting along anywhere. The movie was good too.


5 comments:

Romanadvoratrelundar said...

How sweet!

But, dude, what movie?! Nosy minds want to know.

ps I am not even going to try logging in with this address anymore, because blogger apparently hates me.

knitica said...

Aw, come on, I told you what sock I was knitting. What makes you think I remember the movie from ten years ago?

Ok, it was "Awakenings" because Chris wanted to show me how much he liked Robert DeNiro, especially in non-mob movies.

It was good

Lisa and Robb said...

You told me that story before, but it stills fills my heart with joy!

Romanadvoratrelundar said...

Huh, now I'm wondering whether I've ever actually seen DeNiro in a movie at all (though, speaking of that plot, I'm a big Oliver Sacks fan). *checks imdb* Oh my, of course I have, and that's embarrassing. Brazil. That's all, though.

Romanadvoratrelundar said...

Huh, now I'm wondering whether I've ever actually seen DeNiro in a movie at all (though, speaking of that plot, I'm a big Oliver Sacks fan). *checks imdb* Oh my, of course I have, and that's embarrassing. Brazil. That's all, though.